After such a magical day on Christmas Eve, we try our hardest to maintain our focus on why Christmas is important in our faith - although this is difficult in the face of a pile of presents under the tree!
We take a pause before diving into the gift-giving excitement of Christmas to focus on the first gift of Christmas. The first present of the day - a great tradition from Amy's family - is to unwrap baby Jesus from each of the manger sets. We actually wrap up four baby Jesus', one in each of our nativity sets, to allow more kids the special opportunity of unwrapping Jesus. This is the perfect opportunity for us to teach the kids (again) about the wonderful gift that was given to humanity 2000 years ago.
Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son,
and they shall call his name immanuel
(which means God with us).
Matthew 1:23
Then it's on to the crazy fun of stockings. This is the only part of the day when we let chaos reign! The kids open all theirs' simultaneously, with shredded paper flying through the air. We keep stocking stuffers simple and fun: play-doh, crayons, baseball cards, Hotwheels, bubble bath, Lego mini-figures, coloring books, Chapstick, toothbrushes, and a little bit of candy (we limit our stocking budget to $10 per child).
After taking a break to enjoy the stocking gifts and cinnamon rolls, we move on to the presents under the tree. With a family our size, it's impressive pile of gifts! We limit ourselves to $15 per child, out-of-town family sent additional gifts, and the kids each spent their own money on gifts for each other . . . that's 3 gifts for everyone plus a few fun family presents - all that really adds up under a tree. What a joy! We feel incredibly blessed to be able to gift our children with so much Christmas morning. (Legos, dress-ups, craft kits, board games, books!)
This year was the first where the kids bought for
each other out of their chore money. We are so proud of our big boys
for thoughtfully picking presents and learning about the giving (i.e.
better) side of the gift exchange. The presents from siblings were some of the most exciting gifts opened this year!
One rule that may be called draconian is that no presents may be opened if there is wrapping paper on the floor. Trust us, with 8 kids, this is necessary to maintain sanity and prevent lost gifts. We also take turns opening - it's so much fun to slow down and enjoy each child's joyful reactions : )
What a special day.
What a joyful occasion.
What a fun celebration.
What a blessing!